today is your lucky day. You love to gain attention and show yourself off to you Mistress. I know this and of course that is the best way of learning to please and amuse. I have decided to open my yahoo messenger Goddess.BellaDonna@yahoo.com up for just this purpose today.

I want you to dress in your best sissy outfit and bring 2 of your favorite toys. For my forced smoking sissy gurls I want you to bring a pack of 120′s menthol cigarettes as well so you can perform your forced smoking instructions which I will give to you for me. YOU are going to be on your webcam, while I will speak to you via voice chat.

There is a small minimum tribute requirement – minimum I am going to accept is $50
You can make the tribute either via amazon.com e-certificate to GoddessBellaDonna@cox.net, PP (you have to ask me for the details) or Niteflirt to http://www.niteflirt.com/mysteria

Don’t miss out on this opportunity, you won’t get it that cheap again any time soon.

Your Headmistress
Goddess Bella Donna

My caller was freshly divorced after a 20 Year marriage. Apparently they had agreed to stay married until the youngest of their children was grown up and out of the house. That is a very honorable decision to make, but a very difficult one for both sides. The split in their relationship came when the wife found some of the magazines featuring Sissy Gurls in different explicit situations as well as a small female wardrobe. Upon confronting him about her find in a rather irate manner, the Sissy Gurl I spoke to had confessed about his need to be a sissy gurl. His wife asked him how long he had been a freak now (ouch) and where he went to live out his perverted fantasies. When he told her that he had always been that way and had honestly thought that he could leave it behind, but found roughly 2 years ago when their relationship had cooled considerably the need came back with a vengeance. Needless to say the rest of the conversation didn’t go very well.

According to my caller that was about 7 years ago and after they both had calmed down and the name calling had ceased they came up with a very strict set of rules which would allow them to stay together for the children. There was no reason to make them suffer. As soon as the youngest had moved out, they filed for divorce.

When he first moved out and into his new apartment he expected to feel a sense of relieve, happiness etc. Instead he feels rejected, lonely and scared for his future. All natural emotions I assure you.

Apparently the sissy in him is now fearful to be cursed to be alone for the rest of her life. She is afraid of how her grown up children will view her now, that her “horrible” secret came to light during the divorce hearing. She is scared about her future period, not sure is she should remain in the Area she had spent for the last 15 years or move somewhere where nobody knew her. All those questions are natural as well.

Here s some of the advice I gave her:

First off your children are now fully grown and have the ability to understand that you have a right to your own life just as they do. From what I was told she never dressed in front of them or put her children in any sort of danger. So yes they are probably a little shocked right now, but in honesty crossdressing or being feminized is not a big deal anymore. Young people are a lot more aware of all those things that us older generations think. Sit down and have an adult conversation with them without taking it into anything too personal. They do not need to know about your sex life unless they straight out ask you if you are straight, bi or gay. Give them a little time to get used to it. Eventually they will come around and realize that you are still the same person you have always been. You are still their loving parent who has provided for them and protected them as they grew up. Just don’t be too shocked when they ask you flat out why you kept it hidden all these years or to see you dressed as a female. If they do either, be honest. The time for hiding is over now. If they do want to see you dressed, remember that these are your children and dress casual and respectfully.

Personally I suggest that you do move somewhere else and get a brand new start if your employment allows it. I would give the same advice to anyone who comes out of a painful divorce. The reason is not so much what others think of you now, that never should concern you to begin with, but the painful and even good memories you will encounter everywhere you go. It is called closure and everyone needs it.

There is no reason to fear that you will be alone without a partner for the rest of your life. I do suggest however that you for one heal first. Jumping from relationship to relationship or becoming promiscuous is never a good idea. Give yourself some time to get comfortable with yourself again and try to find the person you have become since you were last single. You may think you are the same, but you aren’t. Unless you have refused to grow up at all (and it doesn’t appear that way) you will have changed in ways you may  not even realize yet. Get to know the wonderful human being you really are and work on the things you don’t like about yourself.

Really decide where you want your life to go with being a sissy gurl. Do you want to be the occasional dresser or do you really feel the need to be a “fulltime” sissy gurl. Meaning unless you are working, you live the life as a woman. It is going to make a big difference in how you need to proceed and how you need to go about dating again when you are ready and healed again.

DO NOT make the same mistake again you did before. With other words it is better to be honest with someone up front and take the chance that they will bow out, then hiding something that is going to be part of you for the rest of your life and be found out after you have build a life together. We women are in general really strange creatures and no matter if you dress like one or not, you still don’t have us figured out yet. I for one know from myself that I can accept and deal with something that is honestly told to me, then having to find out for myself. Most women don’t do very well with purposeful lies.

Don’t assume that every woman is going to react to you the same way. Some women are extremely conservative or religious, while many others are open minded and even may like the idea of having a sissy gurl as a life partner.

If you do get rejected, realize that this is not something against you “personally”. That is easier said then done, but they are not rejecting you the person, but your fetish need. Yes, part of you, but far from everything that defines you. YOu are a lot more then just a male feeling the need to dress as a woman. Always remember that if someone rejects you for that one thing, you are not compatible to begin with and better off without them. Don’t see it as a bad thing, instead rejoice since you just saved yourself a possible lifetime of lies and pain. 

Rejections are not always the same either to be honest. Sometimes an instant rejection is just a reaction to something the person doesn’t feel comfortable with because they have the wrong information about it, are unfamiliar with it, or you have presented it wrong. Instead of reacting in turn in a bad way, tell her that you are willing to talk to her about it should she change her mind later one.  She may come around once she had a little time to get used to the idea and then she may not. If you start flipping out on her so you just slammed the door shut for good.

Don’t contact her again, let her do the next move. If she reaches out to you, be polite and take her lead. If she wants to talk she will and she will ask you questions. If you don’t hear from her again…move on.

As you can see there is never a situation in this world that is exclusive just to you. Take heart in that knowledge. Others have gone through the fire and come out shiny and new on the other side. You can too.

Your Headmistress

Goddess Bella Donna

It is such a wonderful world out here and trust me I may chuckle at your antics (some of you little sluts are just too funny really not to) but I do enjoy you gurls so much. Well never mind I understand you so well don’t I? I have created a nice little “Game” for you that you can play via paytoview yesterday and added it to my http://mysteriaspaytoview.com blog for you.

I say “Game” because you won’t know which mini assignment you will draw when you pay for the pay to view buttons your little eager fingers picked. It could be anything. Each of these mini assignments is made up of a dress order (In which I tell you what I want you to wear for my amusement) and a “use order”. This of course is the actual assignment.

Each assignment is different and since you gurls seem to always a bit tight on cash (well clothing is expensive of course) I have made them super cheap for you too. Each mini assignment is only $5.00 and there are six different ones to chose from.

You can go find them at: http://mysteriaspaytoviews.com/2012/01/sissy-gurl-dress-game-5-00-paytoview-button/

Now mince your way on over there and see what fate has in store for you today! If I see those being bought a lot I will create enough for an entire month, this way you can have one new order a day, without having to call me!

Your Headmistress
Goddess Bella Donna

I hope you had a safe slip and slide into 2012 and didn’t get yourself into too much trouble. 2012 is finally here and I was planning on doing this special today, but sadly the time got away from me. Since I don’t want to short change you (Goddess knows too many of you poor precious sluts are short changed enough as in – looks down at your panties pointedly) I have decided to make it public tonight and start it tomorrow morning at 8 am Las Vegas time.

I am going to set my sissy charm school listing on Niteflirt down to 99 cents per minute as a reconnect with the Mistress in 2012 special. This is only going to be good for January 2nd 2012 so, after that it goes right back up to its normal fee at $1.99 a min.

If you always wanted to call me but couldn’t afford to – tomorrow is your chance puppets.

Now of course you better be prepared before calling me and be dressed correctly, have your best manners in place and get ready to demonstrate your cock sucking skills for me as well. Rubber cock that is. I have something up my sleeve as well, but I am not going to tell you on here. Let’s just say you better call me tomorrow and be ready as ordered. If you can follow one particular instruction at this point you will receive a reward from me ….

Good night for now darlings, talk to you tomorrow!

Your Headmistress

Goddess Bella Donna

I do hope you had a wonderful day so far and are going to enjoy the rest of the day and night in style. Don’t forget darlings today is a grand reason for you all the dress in your finest, put that makeup on just right and put your prettiest foot forward.

I am going to be available for some sissy chats later on today, starting roughly noon Las Vegas time. So if you want to tell me all about it, feel free to give me a call.

Merry Christmas again my darlings.

Your Headmistress
Goddess Bella Donna

Melissa is a sweet southern lady born in the wrong body and she has all the southern charm you expect from a girl from the deep south. She has also this darling way of telling you to get your head out of your ass which leaves you wondering if she just insulted you or gave you a compliment.

Well it appear that my sweet Melissa really didn’t like my last couple of layouts and thought she should share this with me during one of or Girlfriend chats. You have to understand that Melissa and I go back a few years now and she went from being a submissive little slut to a very self assured Lady under my tutelage. Maybe a little too much, I sometimes wonder.

So today she asked me if I remembered how I first taught her how to flirt with gentlemen she found attractive and got that “I am interested vibe” from. Of course I remembered, how could I forget. I asked her if she remembered what I had taught her and she chuckled and asked me to accept her webcam to proof it to me.

Oh honey, honey did she ever learn her lessons well. If I would have been a man I would have had my heart beating right out of my chest I tell you. From the fluttering eye lashes, to the soft deep throated and very feminine chuckle, to the crossed leg play to … well if you want to learn how to do it you have to call me.

I laughed and applauded her and she gave me that little mock bow she has perfected to an art form. Now I know Melissa well enough that she had something on her mind and was working her way around to telling me. Yes, talking to someone for some time gives you the benefit of getting to know all the little subtle signals they give out.

Finally she spills her beans and tells me. Goddess honey (lol she actually calls me that. Still gives me the courtesy address of Goddess, but always ends up following it up with Honey or Darling), I think you must have been very tired over the last few months. I mean you never give anything but your utmost best to those of us you enjoy and maybe even love a little.

Ok my ears are perking up because I sense a “I am disappointed” coming.

I know this because otherwise your Charm School would look spiffy and shiny and wouldn’t spout such a boring pre-created theme. Aha there it was.

She knew I had the software and the know how to create my very own blog themes for my websites and blogs, which to her meant that I had been taking a short cut with the theme I picked. Not acceptable from her friend the Goddess “Honey” lol.

Ok, ok Melissa I hope you are happy sugar because I have taken your little nudge to heart and created this little spiffed up, classy yet feminine theme for you sissy gurls and feminized boys out there. I hope you enjoy it and don’t ever say I don’t take your suggestions to heart.

Now Melissa honey I have done my part, let’s see if you will do what I asked of you. Remember that young man you are so google eyes over? Well I expect to hear an update here after the New Year about your pursuit of said young man. I know you can get him if you really want. After all why else would he be hanging near your table in your favorite coffee shop all the time. MMMM? Put that sexy flirting to work Lady and get the boy into your web.

Goddess Bella Donna

 http://www.cafepress.com/GoddessBellaDonnasSissyStore

Let me show you some of the super items I have just added there:

Submissive sissy pride Long Sleeve T-Shirt

The most comfortable t-shirt ever! Our 100% cotton, Hanes Beefy-T is preshrunk, durable and guaranteed.

Sizes small to 3X

$24.99 plus S&H

Click here to buy this item!

Submissive sissy pride Apron

Great for the domestic sissy gurls among you!

Product Information
Spice up conversations in the kitchen or around the BBQ with this tasty-looking apron (made of high-quality cotton twill, it’s rugged and wears great too). Ideal for cooking, baking, grilling or bartending, it’s perfect for foodies of all sizes. Simply slip the apron over your head and pull the waist-level drawstring to tighten it around your neck and waist. Two generous pockets hold utensils and more.

$21.99 plus S&H

Click here to buy this item!

Cute statement gift idea for the sissy on the prowl.

Product Information
Show-off what you love most with fun oval-shaped earrings. These women’s earrings are stylish & comfortable. You’re sure to catch people’s eye with our glamorous custom jewelry that’s ideal for a special occasion or a trip to the mall.

• Features a polished-scallop edge
• Aluminum construction (decorative portion)
• Hook made of surgical steel

$17.99 plus S&H

Click here to buy this product!

A humiliating confession, a chuckle for all and you red as a tomatoe! Yes, God must have really been on PMS when she created you. But than again maybe it was just a humiliation Mistresses revenge!

The most comfortable t-shirt ever! Our 100% cotton, Hanes Beefy-T is preshrunk, durable and guaranteed.

• 6.1 oz. 100% luxuriously soft ring spun cotton
• Standard fit
• Ribbed sleeve cuffs

Sizes small through 3X

$24.99 plus shipping and handling!

Click here to buy this item!

Cute and slightly humiliating gift idea for the sissy gurl in training. A sweet gift idea that will keep your Mistress smiling and you becomingly blushing!

Product Information
Shine bright and share what you love (or who you love?) in this head-turning and stylish necklace. Featuring an oval-shaped personalized pendant, this custom jewelry has a high-quality, easy-to-use clasp. Perfect for women who appreciate fashion and accessorizing.

• Pendant is made of aluminum and features a polished-scallop edge
• Brass necklace (with electroplated nickel, silver plating, finished with a non-tarnish overcoat gloss)

$19.99 plus Shipping and Handling

Click here to buy this product!

Great item for your forced fem slut, make her wear this under her clothe!

Panty-minimalists love our casual thong that covers sweet spots without covering your assets; putting an end to panty-lines. This under-goodie is “outta sight” in low-rise pants. Toss these message panties onstage at your favorite rock star or share a surprise message with someone special … later.

• 5.8 oz. 100% Ultra-fine combed ring spun 1×1 baby rib cotton
• Size up for a looser fit
• Super soft high end woven elastic trim
• Made in the U.S.A.

Size small to large

$13.99 plus shipping and handling

Click here to buy this item!

Many more items are available from my store. Mugs, laptop skins, teddy bears, jewelry, clothing, clocks and other great items.

Visit: http://www.cafepress.com/goddessbelladonnassissystore today and stock up for those special occassions or just because you love being a gurl at the store created just for you!

Your Headmistress

Goddess Bella Donna

http://www.niteflirt.com/mysteria

I have my very own phone lines now as well so you can call me there without going through Niteflirt.

Call the virtual Girlfriend listing and let’s talk about everything sissy related!
$1.99 a min. for you puppets:

I went shopping online with one of my sissy gurls the other day for beginners anal vibrators which I thought would be a little more girly looking than the usual fare you get presented with in the stores. She is a pretty gurl, loves her pinks and light purples and just enjoys the sweety look. So to me that means her toys have to reflect this. This is what I came up with which I personally think is just perfect for pretty sissy gurls and anal beginners all over and the price is awesome too.

Let me show you a photo of what I am talking about:

So tihs sweet looking and awesome little toy (yes I bought one so I can look it over and make sure it is good enough for you gurls) has a really sleek design which makes it so easy for you gurlies to open your boi-pussies wide and say “ah”.

The vibrator isn’t overbearing like some of the other toys you find are so it is more of a gentle relaxing yet highly stimulating vibration in your ass.

The handle makes this not only a lot easier to grip for putting it in and out, but let’s face it give it a really cute little look to it.

Now think a bit further in the fetish world when it comes to sex toys!

I can see several uses that this could be integrated with. Can you see them dears?

No? Well here are some ideas. Look at the hole at the handle part, it would be extremely easy to attach a “tail” to it for human puppy, pony or feline play. You can also attach all sorts of items for humiliation like tiny bells and then  have your sissy have it in while walking around in public under a long dress skirt. hahaha. Or of course Adult baby play it is a lollipop after all. So as you can see as far as sex toys go at a cheap price this one has some great options in fetish play.

Oh and the material it is made out of isn’t hard either, so you wear it longer with more comfort. Very important for anal beginners or those who are not in the big over the top full sensations.

Now I got mine for approval purposes at http://www.edenfantasys.com where they are sold for only $20.99 and I would suggest you go there as well. There delivery was super discrete, awesome quick and that is what we are looking for right? I am going to make them definitely one of my personal favorite stores for anal vibrators and sex toys.

Get online gurls and get one now!

Your Headmistress